queerpositivity:

There’s nothing wrong with simplifying your identity.
Telling Straight people it in a way that they are more likely to understand without you been required to teach them Sexuality And Gender 101 and lessening the possibility of being attacked is completely fine and you’re not being a bad ____. You’re still you and still part of the community even if you say man instead of demi-guy or bi instead of ply and so on.